For Guys!! 7 reasons why women don’t kiss You

Some men think they must eat up and swallow the woman’s entire mouth during a kiss. So they clamp their manly, dry lips over the poor woman’s lips and proceed to wash it with saliva.

For many people se.x and intimacy is not complete without a kissing session.

With the exception of a few who for some reasons best known to them hate lip-to-lip action, many women consider kissing skills a very important factor in rating a man.

A man’s ability to turn a kissing moment during foreplay to something pleasurable will determine if he gets to transit to the bed or it ends at the kiss.

It must however be noted that there are some things men do when they kiss that can put women off.

Here are 7 of them:

1. You have a foamy mouth – one of the worst things you can do to a woman when kissing is spilling saliva all over her face! A kiss doesn’t call for too much saliva exchange. You are not drinking palm wine from a gourd so keep the saliva inside.

2. You let your tongue roam free – women don’t like men who kiss like snakes. If your tongue darts around uncontrollably inside her mouth, chances are she’ll not allow 

a second chance. So instead of excessive tongue action, focus on her lips. A similar case is men who allow their tongues to dart in and out like a lizard, not nice! Slowly caress her lower and upper lip with your own lips. Use your tongue with caution and be watchful to see if she likes it or not!

3. Your mouth smells like a latrine – if your mouth is a foul-smelling cave, you’ll chase her off. Odour is a major turn-off for women, especially oral odour. Men who smoke, eat garlic and other food with string smell must make sure they always brush, regularly too. Also, chew mints once in a while and keep your mouth dehydrated by drinking plenty of water!

4. You bite or apply too much pressure – a kiss is neither war nor a fight. You don’t increase the pleasure by kissing harder. In fact, the softest kisses will produce stronger emotions. You don’t have to crush her lips!5. You have prickly beards – most women agree that facial hair makes men look hot but most women also find prickly stubbles irritating for their sensitive skin. If your girlfriend is one that loves beards, then do her the favour of leaving your hair moisturized and soft, not dry and prickly. So, if you can’t shave, avoid pressing your face into hers – lips contact only (or mostly)!

6. You are clumsy – a kiss is not an examination, so you don’t have to apprehensive and make things seem awkward. Approach the kiss calmly, especially if it is the first time you’re kissing the person.

7. You swallow her mouth – some men think they must eat up and swallow the woman’s entire mouth during a kiss. So they clamp their manly, dry lips over the poor woman’s lips and proceed to wash it with saliva. A kiss is largely touching lips, sometimes gentle, sometimes firm, but not a case of swallowing her face.

The ultimate rule is to reduce the tongue action and give out as little saliva as possible.

Let kissing be part of your foreplay from now on

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5 Reasons You Should Never Force A Relationship On A Lady

This 'letter' has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.
The Warning Part 
A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous relationship.

I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he could date someone like my friend- who's got morals.

Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset that the size of their manhood can substitute the size of their "mindhood". Simply put: Don't build your life around No girl- It's not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all these other things shall be added unto you It's plain illiteracy to go after a girl that way!


The ADVICE Part 

This is like the body of this thread; REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY GIRL, in view of a relationship.

Quickly, let's see a few:

1. All ladies are the same 

I'm not on the contrary... You see, it beats my imagination how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a different 'privy part' from the other girl? Because, that's the major reasons guys cheat. Don't FORCE yourself on any girl because there is so much more than meets the eye, so carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words, body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary evil. 

2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach 

In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes; I've discovered that you could actually be encroaching thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved, be sure it's not in vain. "Years Of Friendzoning Makes A Guy Look Like He's Been Duped"
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart is elsewhere, dump her. 


3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them 

Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection, Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship etc. Guys, don't FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever please.


4. It Sends The Wrong Signal 

Trying to get her to like you in a short period of time sends the opposite message. Good intention, yea, but it sends a "Desperate Call" to her. Not FORCING yourself on any accords you some form of honour and avoid insults too.


5. The "You Forced Me Into This Relationship" Speech May Surface. 

If you didn't understand the rest points, at least grasp this point, don't FORCE a girl into your life and family. If you FORCE her to come, you'll do same to get her to stay. Fine or Average-looking, they're the same; same sexual parts! In fact, let her make the choice of choosing you without any coercion from anyone.


Forcing a girl into a relationship with you is plain stupidity. Who says you can approach?
You can but don't use the law of Force saying, "If I don't have you, I'll die"--- Lielie, is your name Laila?

To me, state your aim for getting close to her, watch her reaction for days. React based on those figures. 

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Why Men Treat Their Side-Chicks Better Than Their Wives [MUST READ]

Gone are the days when an average young lady anticipated being graced with the title of Mrs Somebody. Nowadays, there is a growing trend of young girls being proud to be dating a married man/sugar-daddy. 

Aside from the scandalous Toke/Maje/Anita saga, Former Governor in Nigeria reportedly beat up his wife recently in London because she confronted him for impregnating his mistress. This same man publicly displays his love for the young girl he has been dating since she was 18yrs of age.. He showers her with the finest things of life whilst treating his own wife with disdain. 
 
In day to day life, so many women suffer in the hands of their husbands, you will see men spending all their earnings on women outside but refuse to pay their own children’s school fees. This is what I find so disheartening… Morality is so unpopular in our present day. 

But.. who is to blame for this new shameless trend? The “seductive” young ladies or the men who have trained them to believe it is more rewarding to be a mistress.


Share your thoughts.. 

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.See Shocking Photos Of The Romantic Relationship That Is Trending In Nigeria

Guess this is the trend now in Nigeria..Even with the anti-gay law which has been signed to sentence any one caught in the act to 14 years in prison, some people don’t want to take caution as they have continued to release more pictures online..

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11 different Pet Names you can call your Spouse/ Partner

There are many other sweet names to call your significant other so you really don’t have to run out of ideas

Couples don’t always have to address each other on first name basis or stick to calling each other one pet name.
There are many other sweet names to call your significant other so you really don’t have to run out of ideas.
Holly Riordan of Binoni lists a few awesome names you can call your significant other:
Baby: You either love this nickname or hate it. Of course, you’re not restricted to using the word by itself. You can always add on to it if you feel the need. There are tons of pet names for your significant other that begin with ‘baby.’ There’s ‘baby doll,’ ‘baby face,’ and even ‘baby boy.’ Stick to whatever sounds best to you.
Darling: This is a cute and simple way to address your partner. It’s similar to the name ‘dear,’ because it suggests that you really care about the other person. It’s perfect for both a serious relationship and one that’s just starting, because it’s something that you could also call your close friends.

Honey: Honey is sweet, which is why you should use this when talking to your super sweet partner. You could also call them ‘honey bun’ when you want a different sounding nickname. Either way, they’ll love hearing your voice say it.
Pumpkin: There are dozens of nicknames that involve food, so this is not your only option. You could also use the name ‘pudding,’ ‘muffin,’ or even ‘cookie.’ The list goes on and on. Just open up your fridge to think of some new ideas.
Sweetie: This nickname is self-explanatory. Use it on your partner if you believe that they’re the embodiment of sweetness. They’re sure to return the favor by calling you a name that’s just as flattering.
Boo: This one has become pretty popular. If you want something simple and sexy, this is your best choice. It sounds casual, but it also suggests that you’re together for the long haul.

Angel: If you think that your partner is perfect in every way, then this nickname should fit them perfectly. They can do no wrong, so to you, they’re like a little angel.

Handsome: Everybody loves to be reminded of how attractive they are. If you don’t like the word ‘handsome,’ then you can say ‘gorgeous’ or ‘sexy.’ No matter what, it’ll show your partner that you’re still swooning over their looks.

Cutie Pie: Sometimes, it’s hard to handle the adorableness of your partner. During those times, you can break out this nickname. You might not want to use it in front of his (or her) friends and embarrass them, but you can use it all you want in private.

Love: If your partner is the love of your life, then you might as well address them as such. You could also get more cutesy by calling them ‘lover boy,’ or ‘love muffin.’ Anything’s a possibility.

Pookie: This one is a bit corny, but sometimes that’s exactly what you need. If you want to go down that road, you could also say, ‘snuggle bunny,’ or ‘stud muffin.’

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8 Things Guys Will Do When They Are Seriously In Love

In my little study about guys,I discovered that guys actually could get seriously in love with a girl and when they do,these are the signs

1.He will always want to be with you
It is possible for a guy to be always busy but the truth is,if a guy truly loves a girl,he will try to create time out of his busy schedule just to be with her.

2.He feels so confident about you
That moment when you step into a place and he walks up to you and tell you how georgous you look even though you are not putting on the best of clothes.If he sees beauty in you when others think of you as ugly,That’s a sign.

3.When he is willing to wait
He may be one guy who loves s*x and loves making out with whoever he dates but when he decides to wait till he is committed “married” before he dig it down with you then it means he thinks of you as special.He loves you..

4.When he introduces you to his friends and family
When a guy loves you,he wont hesitate to do the needful because He feels lucky having you and he is scared of loosing you to another guy.

5.He always want to be seen in public with you by his side
When he takes you out to every occasion he attends,it doesn’t mean he is selfish/overprotective of you.it means he feels confident about you and he loves you.He doesn’t see the relationship as just a joke and he is ready to invest his time and his resource to build up lovely memories.
6.When he sees you and smile even though he is upset
When your guy seem to be upset with everything and everybody around him but immediately you show up he smiles like kilode……..That is a sign that you mean a lot to him.

7.When he respect your privacy and is concerned about your success
when he respect the fact that you need to work or study and in most cases he’s willing to burn the night with you just to make sure you achieve your goal successfully. Then he loves you
8.When he tell you crazy things and does crazy things
When he tells you how many times he purged that morning after eating something funny,how had to sneak into the kitchen to taste what you were cooking when you were not looking,when he still kisses from you wen you are not looking….That means he sees you as a friend,confidant and as his love.

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Pastor Anita Oyakhilome writes about abusive Relationships and Marriages

In a post on her blog titled ‘There is always something to be thankful for’, pastor Anita Oyakhilome, who filed for divorce from the founder of Christ Embassy, Chris Oyakhilome, on April 9, 2014 on the grounds of “unreasonable behaviour” talks about abusive relationships and marriages.
She began with a quote from American actor, Michael J. Fox “One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered.”. See what she wrote after the cut…

She wrote:
After an abusive relationship or marriage, there is no doubt you will have feelings of deep sorrow for a long time, which could go on for possibly months or even years. These feelings will come and go periodically as you reflect and you remember things from the past that would make you feel distressed.
You may be inundated with disappointments, which may lead you to voice your regrets, especially coming across certain people or a person. Several Instances could cause flashbacks and bring back thoughts of regret such as; signing a contract, making a decision, joining an organization, trusting people, buying a property. Also your mind would question why you hung unto a dead marriage or stayed in an abusive relationship. Don’t stay in that condition for too long.

Regrets will only aggravate your feelings. Forget about the things you cannot change and focus on being thankful. Don’t put your life on hold, rather plan what you would like to accomplish in one week, one month, three months and in a year’s time.
See the silver lining in the cloud. You may struggle to find or observe that flicker of light emerging out of the darkness but give yourself time to recover from that shocking hopeless experience, then thank God for making you strong enough to walk away from the abuse.
The situation might be tough, with burdensome chains, but you will get better. You can rise up to the challenge and improve yourself. Something good will come out of your situation. You will become a stronger and more productive person when you learn from your experience and use your knowledge to improve yourself for new prospects ahead. “I want my life to bring comfort to others and I am on that journey now thankfully.” Every ending is really a new beginning for beautiful opportunities ahead.

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See Things Ladies Should Do To Keep Your Man From Other Girls

It will be a very good thing if most ladies can read this piece and know that it will be extremely helpful for them as it will help them keep their man and enjoy marriage the way it should be:

A good cook:
I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man’s favorite food and I mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him.


S*xual delight:
I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man. A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a s*xually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the husband.

Be his personal private Love-peddler:
Don’t be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday.

The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for s*x “ooohh how boring” please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the poo of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don’t do him well, who will?
 
Financial independence:
Your husband should not be your sole financial plan. Please if you are a “full housewife” reading this i guess its time to free yourself from that. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don’t spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby’s gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

Humility:
Its so s*xy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family, a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

Fear of GOD:
A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don’t bother about any lady snatching your husband. Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

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PLEASE HELP! My Woman Deceived Me With Fake Ikebe and B0.0bs........What Do I do?

Sadly, stuffs that do not matter in real life marriage are taking the front burner. Read this guy's tale:

I am really upset, disappointed and angry. I have been dating this lady for about a year now and I had made up my mind to settle down with her. I really like her because she is exceptional in many rewards.

When we started dating, she told me of how she would like to honour our relationship by not having s*x before marriage. Although, she told me that she is not a virgin. I accepted because well I was 32 and she was 25 and I am a good man who just want to good lady for a wife.

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7 Things Women Can Do To Drive Men Wild During Se x

Have you had problems getting your partner hard? Or is your se xual life conservative and you’re looking for ways to spice it up?

Look no further as we bring to you things that you can do as a woman that is guaranteed to drive your man wild and crazy in bed. Se xual satisfaction is important for the sustenance and growth of relationships and a good way to ensure this is by knowing those things that we men crave for.
Even though se xual tastes and wants differs, there are certain things that hold true universally. These things are what every man craves for from his woman. It is our hope that after reading this article, the knowledge therein would help to bolster and improve relations in your se xual life.

GET NA KED FIRST
Well, if you want to drive any guy crazy, this is the first rule in the book. Men are naturally attracted to the things they see and once you do this, your spouse would instantly feast his eyes on your body and make a move for it within seconds of looking. Getting na ked before he does is a sure way of triggering his libido and crave for the curves you have without the hindrance of clothing.

TRY OUT THE BLINDFOLD
Men have reported the intensity they feel when blindfolded during se xual intercourse. The chances your man has experienced such is low and as such it is a good idea for you to try blind folding him while you make out. Treat him to the sensual and erotic wonders that comes with complete darkness.

BOSS HIM AROUND
A good way to boss him around in bed is to tell him the things you want through Morse codes as opposed to verbally saying them. This is bound to turn him on especially if he’s the type that has previously been used to being in control. Point him in the right directions and he will be happy for it.

  KNOT HIM UP
If you find out that he’s acting in a squeamish way, get some loose scarfs, ties or shirt ant tie his hands to the bed post. Men go crazy for women that are flirty and controlling in bed and tying him up is bound to make him enjoy the pleasures of the moment more. Tying him up and blindfolding him in bed builds trust and tells you how much you both love each other.

TALK DIRTY TO HIM
This is a major turn on for me. Find those dirty and sensual words and purr as you say them. Try breathing heavily into his ears as you say those words and when the action is on, try out some moans, screams and shouts as you make out. This will help in raising the ante of the eroticism present and is bound to drive him wild.

BURN YOUR NAME INTO HIS SKIN WITH YOUR NAILS
Before burning you name into his skin, work your way all through his body and make him want to grab you. Smile se xily while you do this and watch him crave for more. Burning your name in his skin is actually self explanatory but if you are wondering how to go about it, let your man feel the intensity of your orgasm by clutching your nails into his skin. Hold him tight as you climax and this is bound to make him feel the intensity of the moment and how much you are into him.

BACKUP PLAN
it is a good idea to have a back up plan in case every other thing fails. This plan is pretty much simple and it involves grabbing his pe nis and putting it straight into your va gina. This might sound strange but research studies have found it to work. Some studies concluded that men find direct contact on their pe nis to be pleasurable than between their pe nis and the female va gina even more so as it is their favorite spot to snuggle up.

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"No Woman Can Snatch Your Man If You Have These 6 Attributes"

 
But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the poo of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will? 

 3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Se xual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a se xually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense. 

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