6 methods to ask a girl out and she will say YES immediately,especially when you do number 3 and 5

Getting a girl is not as easy as you think particularly
when it comes to dealings with Nigerian girls.
However, most guys are nurturing the ideas that
Nigeria girls are CHEAP and easy to be SCREWED
once you have the money.

Anyway, it’s not all girls, a friend of mine will say. There
are some Nigerian girls that are so hard to get that
you will begin to wonder if she is not a Nigerian.
No matter how hard a girl seems to be, the right guy
can still get into her heart because girls naturally are
fragile in heart as so, they need to be followed up slowly, especially when you are nursing the idea of
starting a relationship with them.


1. Write a nice letter. You don’t have to explicitly write
“I love you” in the note, but you can outline the things
you admire about the other person. A lot of people
prefer to write down their feelings because it allows
you time to revise your words so that they’re just
right.
If possible, write your feelings down with a pen and
paper instead of on a computer. Your unique
handwriting adds a personal touch to the letter, and
he or she might like to have a physical object that
represents your feelings.
Before you start, write a small brainstorm of all the
things you like or admire about him or her. Note
close experiences you’ve shared, or things that
remind you of the other person.
Grab a good sheet of paper. If you don’t have
stationary lying around, use copy paper – it will look
neater than note paper.

2. Make eye contact. Whenever you can, meet the
other person’s eyes. Don’t stare after him or her
constantly, but do allow yourself to be caught looking
at his or her face once in a while. When you’ve been
detected, smile a little bit and hold the gaze for
another second before looking away.


3. Show your feelings through your actions. Non-
verbal cues can count for a lot, and allow someone to
see how you feel without putting yourself out there
too much. Here are some possibilities:
Smile. The best thing you can do is also the easiest –
throw your loved one a sincere smile whenever you
can. Whenever you do, try to hold his or her eyes for
slightly longer than a second.
Make your body language seem receptive. A side
effect of being nervous around this person might be
that your body language seems closed off or
unapproachable. Try to reverse this by keeping your
arms unfolded, and your arms loose at your sides or
clasped behind your back. Turn your body toward the
other person when you’re talking to them, including
your feet. Incline your head toward them when you
make eye contact.
Don’t worry about blushing. You can’t control when
you blush anyway, but if you find yourself doing it
around him or her, just go with it. In a way, a blush is
a useful signal to the other person letting them know
how you feel – so let it do its work!
Wink. If you can manage it, try to throw him or her a
sly wink every now and then. Don’t do it too often –
no more than once every few days.

4. Try a few light physical touches. Initiating physical
contact with someone lets him or her know you want
more closeness. Start small, by walking or sitting
near the other person. If that goes well, try touching
his or her arm lightly during a conversation. Other
possibilities after that include putting an arm around
the other person’s shoulders, playfully “bumping”
into him or her with the side of your hip, and playing
footsie.


5. Do small favors without a word. Sometimes, the
best favor is one you don’t have to even ask for. If
you know for sure that he or she needs something
done or would appreciate a certain gesture, just do
it. When the other person discovers your deed, just
smile. If you have to make a comment, say “I wanted
to help you” or “You’re welcome.” Don’t make it into a
big discussion – let the action stand alone and
communicate how much you care.

6. Be Romantic: Girls like romantic guys, so be
romantic with your words. Don’t forget to tell her
how beautiful she is and how happy you are each

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This Girl Gets Down Dirty and Wild In front of Men (18+ONLY VIDEO)!!

Nowadays, majority of ladies have lost morals and some of the things they do in public are just shocking and disgusting.

Instead of studying, they engage in useless activities that add no value to their life.

Below is a crazy video of a middle aged lady from Nairobi Aviation College, who decided to unleash her madness in-front of men as she jammed down to Jamaican dancehall tunes.

Looking closely, this crazy lady is br@less and her big “nyonyos” are popping out as men cheer her on.

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Romantic Things A Guy Can Do To Make A Girl Completely Melt

Being in love is a wonderful, glorious, fantastic journey that brings together two people in a miraculous explosion of passion.

Sorry, I know that was really flowery, but stick with me, OK?
Now, I may have seen this as a quote on Instagram at some point, but sometimes we’re lucky enough to find a soul that grooves with ours.
Sometimes the universe just throws us a line.

It’s a great thing. With all that said, our boyfriends also have the ability to drive us completely insane.
Men and women have a unique sort of relationship.
We’re two halves of a whole, but each side is extremely different.
We’re compatible and incompatible all at once. Our relationships leave us feeling happy, frustrated, delighted, ecstatic, angry and just plain emotionally overwhelmed.
Our boyfriends are just so cute and annoying and sweet and clueless and wonderful and… UGH.
Our boys make our hearts swell and our heads cloudy. Yes, we ladies do get a little coo-coo-crazy when we fall in love.

We think with our hearts, not our heads. We’re all emotional clues and no logical cues.
We’re baffled when our men think when we say, “I’m fine,” it means we actually are fine.
We don’t understand why our boyfriends don’t talk to their parents about us. It makes us feel like we’re losing our minds and belong in a padded room.

There are plenty of overdone, washed out ways to make your girlfriend feel safe and secure in your relationship, but it’s really the smallest, simplest gestures that are actually the most noteworthy.
Something as simple as a kiss on the hand or wearing that shirt she bought you will go the furthest and melt her heart.

It may sound corny, but it’ll work every time.
Here are 24 unusual, quirky things a guy can do to make his girlfriend fall for him all over again:

1. Tell her how cute she is in the morning.
Even if she looks completely smudged and swollen, you know she’s still the cutest thing in the world.

2. Take her opinion into consideration.
If you actually consider her advice (and take it), as opposed to just hearing her out and completely disregarding what she says, it will go a long way.

3. Let her take you shopping.
You don’t have to wear something she likes if you hate it; just buying a shirt she loves on you will be enough.

4. Tell her how important she is to you.
Tell her often. It makes her feel secure, and sometimes we girls need that.

5. Offer a free massage.
It’s a simple, intimate act that will let her know you care about how stressful her life can get and want to help.

6. Don’t be afraid to be “emotional.”
No one is saying you should break down and cry all the time, but it takes a real man to be straightforward about how he’s feeling.

7. Tell her stories from your childhood.
Hearing about your past will make her feel like you’re letting her into a world very few have access to.
This will make her feel connected to you because it means you trust her.

8. Rub her a lot.
…In a non-sexual way. We just love to be rubbed and snuggled (but yeah, rub her a lot in a sexual way too).

9. When it comes to grooming, appease her.
If she hates your beard, would it really kill you to shave it? If she loves a beard, would it be so hard to grow one?
Genetics aside, she’s the one who is looking at you and having sex with you, after all.

10. Show her the amount of PDA she wants.
If she’s not super into it, don’t kiss her neck on that park bench. If she’s into a little hand holding, take her hand.
Don’t make her feel rejected but don’t make her feel uncomfortable. She should feel like you’re proud of her and want the world to know.

11. Tell her she’s your best friend.
There is nothing more wonderful than dating your best friend.

12. Get weird with her in the bedroom.
Indulge her fantasies, and she’ll indulge yours. If you can get freaky in the sheets, it shows how much confidence you have in each other.

13. Tell her you want her to meet your family.
And bring her to dinner the next time they come to town. It will show her you see a future together.

14. Put your hand in her back pocket.
It’s little, playful gestures like this that make her feel sexy.

15. Take her to a wedding.
The best place to get a lot of sex from your girlfriend is at a wedding because weddings make ladies Randy with a capital R. Fun fact. Do with it what you will.

16. Leave her a note on the fridge when you have to head out early.
Whether it’s just for work or a longer business trip, let her know she’s the first thing on your mind when you wake up.

17. Kiss her on the forehead.
It’s the most tender of gestures that really makes a girl weak in the knees.

18. Give her a key to your place.
Literally give her access to your home and heart. The key is the KEY to trust.

19. Kiss her hand.
She may be into her independence, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be a gentleman.
A kiss on the hand will show her how much you value her, how precious she is.

20. Encourage her to leave things at your apartment.
A girl is always going to be hesitant about “invading” your space and scaring you away.
Let her know if she wants to leave a hairbrush and a toothbrush, she’s not only welcome to do so, but you want her to do so.

21. Tell her how sexy she is.
Women have off days, days when we just feel like the foulest creatures on the planet.
Even though you see her all the time, be sure to make the effort to tell her how sexy she is. We need to hear it.

22. Don’t be afraid to do goofy, embarrassing things in front of her.
Trust me: It’s so endearing when you act like a freak. We love it.

23. Do a favor for one of her friends.
When you love a girl, you have to get in with her friends. Be a first-responder the minute one of them needs a helping hand.

24. Let her baby you a little.
We’re females, so we’re naturally nurturing. She’ll think it’s sweet when you need her to rub your belly because you ate that fourth slice of pizza, and she’ll love being able to nurse you back to health when you’re sick.
Your softer side is always appreciated.

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10 Shameful Acts Guys Display After Getting Under The Skirt Of A Lady

1. They Brag When In The Midst Of Friends
Guys who act this way are nothing but scum in my personal opinion. I don’t know why some guys are so dumb that something done in secret becomes a public issue. Few weeks ago, I was in Ado-Ekiti when a lady visited me. Gbaaaaam !!!! I locked ourselves up for nearly four hours  and when she was about going, I took a few minutes walk with her half way and after returning back, see as my guys begin hail and even congratulated me like say my Bet9ja ticket click. They were asking if I actually I did it, and I was like whaatdaafccck is that? Some guys will even lie even if they never did it. This is just to boast their ego

2. They Show to Their friends Already Used Condoorrrm
Some of them are even dumb and immature that they will take their friends to their room and show to them the already used condom so that their friends will not think they are telling lies.


3 They Snap Pictures
I have no atom of respect for guys who involve in this silly act. I just can’t but shake my head for guys who are guilty of this act. Few months ago, one dumb guy in my villa was showing to his friends the selfie taken during the deed. This is nothing but the greatest height of stupidity and immaturity at PhD level.

4. They Give The Girl’s Phone Number To Their Friend

This is another shameful thing some guys do. After the deed, some of them will give out the girl’s number to their friends telling them how professional skillful she’s on the bed. The mumu friends sef go collect the number begin chase the girl  

5. They Suddenly Become Unnecessarily Authoritative
To some guys, they believe that a lady will not have an atom of respect for them until they got her laid. However, guys with this mentality always act like ladies puppet but will suddenly become authoritative just like Ayo Fayose the moment their purpose has been fulfilled. That is, they start springing surprises and doing things the way they like and will command obedience from the lady by force.

6. They Stop Showing Affection
It is of no doubt that the worth of some guys, is measured by the strategies used to cajole and get ladies bleeped. This however gives some of them an assurance of self worth and handsomeness. When some of them manage to find their way there, that is when they drastically show interest and act like the ladies is the forcing herself on them *yeye people*

7. They Delete and Block Her
Another shameful practice some dumb and silly guys are guilty of. They used to call frequently and chat her up, but after the deed, they will stop ringing her up and even avoid her calls. The lady in question becomes worthless to them because they have got what them find joy in.

8. They Start Nagging
I swear, guys who do this are nothing but eeeedioots. Some of them can be so tolerant that that can even eat poo, but when their mission is accomplished they pick offence for everything. That is when they know that she’s not pretty, and has a poor test in fashion.

9. They Expect Her To Start Chasing Them

Guys who act like this need a knock on the head. They used to do the calling most of the time, and also used to chat her up frequently, but when they just manage to do what pleases their heart, they stop ringing her up or even pick their calls

10. Feel free to add the Last one

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7 Things Which You Should Never Do For A Girl

In as much as falling in love is a beautiful thing for those who made it to the other end there are some certain things a guy should never do for a girl other wise you will lose your self respect before her

1)helping her wash clothes

2)helping her write her exams

3)allowing her slap u playfully

4)giving her liberty to flirt with other guys when u r dating her

5)helping her carry her handbag

6)condoning her shouting on u

7)add urs 

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See 6 ways to know if you satisfy your wife/girlfriend in Bed

Today, on MaDailygist Hot!, we have another sex-pert in the house, Ms Vicky Osubor and she takes us on another orgasmride. This time, she talks about why some women fake orga.sm when in the real world, they have not gotten to that great point every woman long for during se.x.

Enjoy her!

In my over 8 years of dealing with couples on issues of se.x, I have come to realise that more than 70% of women fake orga.sm and the funny thing is that their husband’s or lovers are not the wiser.

Some fake it very regularly, that is, every time she has se.x, while others  only do it sometimes.

In fact, there was a woman I treated and she confessed that she has never experienced orga.sm for the 6 years she had been married to her husband but has to put up a fake show every time they make love.

Most women are often afraid to be truthful, or simply don’t know themselves what’s possible. The woman may also feel pressure to perform and prove herself a se.xy woman and in such situations, she has to put up an act.

On the other hand, most men don’t realize that the woman needs to first to feel safe, comfortable, intimate, and in touch with her sensuality before she’s ready for genital stimulation. She may be afraid to say that she needs more time.

Another problem is that some men do not even take the time to turn their women on before humping on her and before she is even ready, he is done and rolls off her.

She may be afraid to say that she needs more time. She may be afraid to show her real feelings if they don’t fit what’s supposed to happen in bed. And she may be afraid to hurt her husband’s feelings by telling him that whatever they are doing is not turning her on.

That said, here are some signs that a woman is faking orga.sm.

If you want to know if you are being duped, use the following signs that she really is having an orga.sm to distinguish the fake from the real big O

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10 Thing Ladies Do That Shows They Want Se x When They Visit Their Boyfriends

 
1. Assure Me You Will Not Initiate Sex When I Visit You
Yes a lady once told me prior to her arrival that I should assure her I will not touch her when she comes. She actually wanted to know if I'm capable

2. I Feel So bored
When you turn yourself into a clown just to put a smile on her face and she still tells you she's bored, oooooh boi, na you come sabi oooo

3. I'm feeling heat
It's normal to feel heat inside a stuffy room condition, but it's abnormal to feel heat when the AC is at high frequency. She'd be like, please get me a hand fan, haba inside AC ? that's awkward

4. She Says No To Everything
She says NO to movies, she says NO to checking of photo albums, she says NO to magazines, she says NO to everything. It's just one of those signs cheesy

5. She Stops Talking
Someone who has been talking to you suddenly stopped responding to your chat, isn't that weird ? 

6. She Says You Are Not Romantic
When men were boys, a lady visited me and uttered that statement but I never understood what she meant until she stopped visiting. When you are both in the room and she tells it to straight to your face that you are not romantic, then she has indirectly signal to you to do the needful

7. Please Lock The Door
In some cases, she will tell you to lock the door with the key cos she doesn't like the noise coming from outside

8. She Checks Her WristWatch At Intervals
If she checks her watch by intervals and keeps reminding by intervals that she will soon be going, it's just one of those signs

9. She Keeps Silent When Her Boyfriend's Pals Are Present
Yes many of them will keep mute so as to signal to his friends that she's not feeling their presence and that they should bleep off

10 She Rejects Your Permission
Not every guy is way too forward to make moves. However, some might take permission before making moves. For example, the guy asks, "please can I kiss you ?", she replies " I don't know" ooooooh boi na you come know ooooo cool

Guys feel free to add yours cool 

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8 Things Guys Do That Show Ladies Are In Control Of Their Lives

There is a limit to everything in life most especially when it comes to relationship and marriage because if the function of a man is switched, people will term the lady in his life as a witch.


This is why it is advisable for couples or "couples to be" not to overstep their boundary when displaying love as the gossips, the broken hearted and perhaps those who mean well will term such guy as a slow poke person.

Going straight to the business of the day, let's take a brief look on things guys do that show ladies are in control of their life.


1. Becoming her errand boy/puppet

When men were boys, ladies used me as their puppet by sending me to buy food, fetch water and others. My friends made jest of me, calling me lover boy and reported me to my parents that I am under chioma's spell.

2. Suffering and Smiling Attitude

Some ladies are in the habit of abusing guys for no reason most especially if he is broke or too dumb to express his emotion. If a guy who used to be affluent and jovial becomes broke, ladies will ridicule and ruin his reputation in public as people will believe that his destiny has been nailed on a tree by her.

3. Emptying his account or pocket for her

I hate it when guys in their right senses empty their account for ladies to make Brazilian hair, buy expensive phones and other worthless purposes albeit him begging for N50 recharge card, garri, etc.




5. She eats assorted meals while he drinks water during date

Wonders shall never end as some guys exhibit pretence during date by drinking pure water while the lady he is asking out eats all sort of assorted meals. No doubt if this act continues, people will ask if the guy is mentally sound.

 

 
6. Helping her to attain good grade in school while he is on probation

This act is common in school where shallow minded guys act like machos by helping ladies to write test and assignment at the detriment of their success. This is perhaps one of the reasons why ladies are getting good jobs after school meanwhile guys with poor grades are struggling to get common cement lifting jobs.

6. Washing her under wears

I wrote an article few months ago about a friend of mine who washed a lady's underwears during NYSC program as she used, duped and dumped the mumu guy for another guy few months after the end of the program. I pity the life of some guys who believe that this act is out of love because apart from the fact that his image will be tarnished, those around will see him as a retaarded individual.

7. Loosing her hair regularly

Some guys are fun of this act which on regular occasion will attract insult from the society as people will advice such guys to visit MFM for deliverance.

8. Neglecting football match in order to satisfy her regularly

I have seen a die-hard football fan who became a "hommie" during live matches because his girlfriend told him to choose between football and her. What amuses me is that this guy always satisfy her in terms of attention, care, money, etc but when a match is about to commence, this is when she starts nagging about him not respecting her feelings.

9. Risking Their Lives During Love Making

Many lives&souls have been lost during love making

Last week, a lady visited me & during love making, she instructed me to do a style other dan missionary style which could claim my life, or lemme say, which could send me back to my creator. For where ? I told her at once dat i wouldnt risk my life for two minutes pleasure, cos i no want make Lalasticlala push my story enta nairaland FP


10. Giving Preferential Treatment To Ladies

Weeks back, a lady broke my heart during exam period & i was so depressed dat i couldnt even spell "BOY" correctly

During psychology exam, I was emotionally depressed that i was abt to submit my blank answer booklet wen i sighted a friend of mine seated behind me. Immediately, i smiled like somebody who just collected his original Bsc certificate.

Na so dis no even look my face, dey teach one babe wey him no fit ever see him bra.

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5 Ways To Avoid Being Seen As a Se.x Object

Men are very physical creatures and are usually moved by what they see. Due to this, it is often easy for some of them to see women mainly as s exual objects available for their own pleasure.

Here are ways, as a woman, to avoid seeming this way;

1. Watch what you wear: How you dress reflects a lot on how everyone sees you, not just men. Dressing yourself in extremely revealing clothes will lead men to assume that s ex is all you have to offer. It will be difficult for them to see you as anything else.
2. Avoid the pros titute-character: By definition, a pros titute is a person who exchanges s ex for money. So if, every time you choose to be intimate with someone, you expect some financial rewards in return, it gives off the impression that you are having him pay for s ex.

Even if you do this with someone you are dating, he will only ever see you as someone he pays to have s ex with.

3. Know who you are: A man wants to be with a woman who challenges him, inspires him and makes him better. He will only respect a woman who knows what she is worth and not one who only exists to serve his s exual needs. If that is all you are to him, he will, no doubt, only view you as a s ex object.

4. Careful with your social life: Being the kind of woman that frequents the reigning hotspots, bars and clubs would reflect negatively on you.

This does not mean these places are out of bounds for you, but try to spend more of your time in places that are a bit more conservative and improves your worth as a woman.

5. Know when to say “No”: A woman who knows her boundaries and makes sure everyone around her knows it will certainly be respected. You do not need to experiment with everything and anything, especially in b ed.

If there are things you are uncomfortable with, state this clearly and with determination. Do not be the girl that does it all as this will make a man feel that your body is all you have to offer.

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5 Reasons Why You Probably Won’t See Her Again Even If You Have Her Number

Often time after a long, somewhat successful weekend, you find yourself at the start of the week with a decent amount of phone numbers. During those weekend nights, you were pretty sure that most, if not all those girls, will see you again. But, as experience has probably told you, that’s hardly the case.
This article will focus on the mistake you make and what you can do to improve your chance of landing a solid number that will actually turn into a date after the weekend is over.
1. She Asked For Your Number: While you may initially think this is a good idea (and it sometimes is), if a girl ask for your number/email/Facebook, twitter early on in the interaction, it often means that she’s just looking for a quick way to get rid of you. Some girls even laugh around about the number of phone numbers they collect from weak dudes or about the amount of friends (again, dudes) they have on Facebook.Remeber, if a girl ask you for your number at the end of a conversation-she wants to see you again; if she randomly asks for your number at the beginning of it- she wants to get rid of you.
2. You didn’t / couldn’t separate her from Her Friends: We all know that separating a girl from her group of friends is the only real way of actually witnessing her true personality. It’s the same with us guys; we all act differently when we’re around our friends.
As a result, if you’ve failed to separate her from the group or she refused, chances are, you’re never going to see that girl again, even if she agreed to give you her number .Why? Well is she couldn’t leave her friends to have a 5-10 minute conversation with you, she was obviously, not that interested.
3. She left you standing: This should go without saying but I’m going to mention it anyway. If you were having a conversation, you got her contact and then the girl says she needs to go to the washroom but never returns, you’re not going to see her again.
If she does come back , or actively seeks you out , or even stuff like trying to find more interesting subjects to talk about …are all good signs that you might actually see this lady again.
4. You didn’t make plans: This is probably the most important one so pay attention. Whenever you ask a girl for her number you should always make plans and sell those plans.
A fantastic way of doing this talking about various things, activities during the conversation and then pitching doing those activities as you’re for her number.
5. You asked too early: Boys abr3…Lol, whenever you ask for a number it’s incredibly important to ask at the very last possible moment.
This makes it seem that the conversations should have continued but you were forced to ask for the number as it was the last possible option to continue your engagement.
If you ask 1-2 hours before closing time on that particular venue, then unless you remain with her for the rest of that time, you won’t see her again.
Why? Simply because she has to forget about you are, 2 hours to talk to more guys that may make a better, more lasting impression towards the end of the night.

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How to Make a Man to Fall in Love Within A Twinkle Of An Eyes

Do you want to know how to get a man to fall in love with you? Well you’ve come to the right place. is our first download about rebranding your image online, to motivate men to notice you, choose you, commit to you & only you.

Let’s face it everybody is online

It is undeniable that the first impression you give him is two fold

1. Your first impression online
2. Your first impression in real life

Men rarely give second chances. When you fall short of making an amazing impact online a great guy will not take you seriously. Perception is everything and your main aim when you first come into contact with him, is to blow him away with a great first impression. The result of that is you will elevate yourself from the masses and stand out in his mind.

The key is to get inside his head

Men are attracted to multiple women at any one time, so the woman who occupies his mind most, and for the longest time, is the woman he is likely to fall for. Therefore:

How you present yourself

How effectively you communicate your identity to others

Will either pique his interest to notice you, choose you, eventually call you, and take you out, or else he’ll lump you in the same category as all the other girls he comes across.

By simply glancing over your social media accounts and professional or student networks, he can get an essence of who you are, and judge your persona before he’s even asked you any questions. You might be his perfect match in real life, but fail to make the grade in his assessment online, because of small errors in your profile.

Packaging yourself in the right way is everything.

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Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys

Quite a lot of girls complain that they don’t get noticed when, the truth is, they are being noticed, but guys are being put off from approaching them, because of some of the subtle signals that they are sending out.
Men are not as sure of themselves as you might think, so if you are giving the impression that you are not really interested, or the guys think they are more likely to get a slap around the face than they are a conversation, then they are going to be reluctant to approach you. If you have been wondering why all your efforts to look gorgeous and desirable don’t seem to be attracting the men, then read these ten tips on how to make yourself seem more approachable to guys.

1. Think about your general appearance
We know that looks aren’t all that counts, but we also know that first impressions are important. Not everyone can afford chic clothes and the finest makeup, but you should still make the effort to make sure that you look neat and tidy. You should also be able to show your individuality in how you dress, but bear in mind that extreme fashion and extravagance will put some guys off.

2. Don’t give anyone a hard time
Remember that a guy could be watching you out of the corner of his eye, so don’t do anything to make him think twice about approaching you. If you launch into a verbal assault on a bartender, because he forgot to put ice in your drink, you’re going to make yourself look scary to any men who might be looking on.

3. Don’t look too busy to talk
Most people won’t interrupt you if you look too busy, so don’t be so engrossed in your phone, or your iPad that you don’t even notice that a guy is showing some interest in you! Also, if you are out with some friends, then don’t stand around in a huddle sharing the gossip, because that will dissuade a guy from making a move too.

4. Don’t hang out with the boys
There’s nothing at all wrong with having male friends, but if you hang out with them all the time, then other men are going to be cautious about approaching you. You may know that your relationship with these guys is nothing more than a friendship, but another man who is not a part of the group will assume that you are in a relationship with one of your male friends.

5. Think about the body language
You can make yourself look unapproachable by the way that you stand or you sit. Don’t fold your arms in front of you, and keep your body facing toward the people that you want to attract. You don’t need to make it look like you are desperate to attract attention, but you do want to send out the signal that it’s OK to approach you.

6. Laugh, smile and have fun
You will appear a lot more approachable if it looks like you are having fun, so smile and laugh and have a good time. The happier you look, the more you will make a man feel like he wants to join you and share in some of the fun.

7. Tell him with your eyes
One look can say it all, so use your eyes to draw a man in. Without making it too obvious, try and catch his eye occasionally and then look away again and perhaps, let your eyes linger on him for a little longer than they would usually. Too much eye contact with a stranger will make him feel uncomfortable, but get it right, and it will get his attention and make him want to come over and meet you.

8. Don’t get all tongue-tied when someone does talk to you
If a man is talking to you, then don’t get all embarrassed and tongue-tied. If you don’t respond to him, then he’s going to think that you are not interested and leave you on your own. Smile, engage him in conversation and sound interested in what he has to say.

9. Don’t look too aloof
Confidence is attractive, but over-confidence could make men think twice about approaching you. One thing that guys really fear is being rejected outright by a girl and being given the cold shoulder. Don’t let your confidence be mistaken for aloofness and give out the impression that you are too good for anyone in the room.

10. Give him opportunities to talk to you
If you have your eye on one guy, then put yourself in a position where he can talk to you. Be there, when he goes up to the bar or, get on the dance floor when he does. Get him away from his buddies and he’s more likely to approach you and, if he sees you often enough, he’s going to be more comfortable about approaching you.
Do you have other tips on how to seem more approachable to guys?
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4 Reasons Why You Should Always Have Se.x On A First Date

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4 Lies Men Tell To Get S- ex From Women… No.1 is just silly!!!! (SEE HERE)

When a man’s organ is hungry, there is just about no lie he can’t tell. A man who really wants to have s;ex with the object of his affection can lie that he is God if he thinks that will get him laid.

When a man’s organ is hungry, there is just about no lie he can’t tell.
In fact, a man who really wants to have se x with the object of his affection can lie that he is God if he thinks that will get him laid.

Ladies have received earfuls of lies that will make you shrink mouth ajar.
Here are 4 of them:
“I’m already er ect. I’ll suffer pains.” A desperate guy can use his erection as an excuse to get laid. Truly an erection left unrelieved can hurt, but not so hard that he NEEDS to have sex – unless of course he has used performance enhancers already.



“I love you.” This is the big one that seems to work many times. Knowing that sex for women is as emotional as it is physical, men lie that they are in love, thereby appealing to the woman’s soft side.

“I’m a vir gin.” Yeah, men are virgins too! More than a few guys have played that card. They will say they want the lady in question to help them get over the virginity. It just might be true though.

“You’re the only one I’m seeing.” This is another one that works many time. The guy tried to make the women believe that there is no one else, hence the need to be fully committed and let him have a bite of the honeycomb.

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5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship

It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!
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The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!!  Observe watchfully, bro!

  3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

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Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single

It’s a tough world out there… full of awkward first dates, bad s*x and limited chances at orgasms.

Women now associate the dating landscape with the same risks many face going into the arctic tundra.

It’s cold, uncomfortable and it’s more than likely that you’ll die before getting that fire lit.

After years of bad trips and valuable packing lessons, we go in a little more prepared each time. We’ve learned tips, tricks and lessons that could only be experienced firsthand, quickly learning the scams, the men who are just trying to swindle you and certain places we will just never go again.
We’ve changed our clothes, hair and grooming styles to fit the destination, yet there’s something we can’t seem to change that’s making the journey a treacherous hike. Something we can’t hide and something we refuse to keep at home. Something we won’t check at baggage claim or give up at customs.

Unfortunately, for women, intelligence many times hinders our travels and keeps us from the promise land. Because, for all you bright and educated women out there, what you feel is real… intelligent women are more likely to be single.

The popular saying “ignorance is bliss” doesn’t exactly cover the broad spectrum of woes women feel as they sit alone Friday nights with no one to discuss Nietzsche or read lines from Proust with.

It doesn’t assuage a woman’s pain as her parents ask where her boyfriend is and why she can’t find a nice guy.

The saying should be something closer to “ignorant women get the man and intelligent women never feel bliss.”

But why is this? Why don’t men want women with whom they can converse and who challenge them? When did the aversion to strong and intelligent women become a code orange? When did everyone just want to go to the Bahamas and lie around?

In an article by “The Wire,” financial reporter, John Carney, gives one explanation for this phenomenon, deducing, “successful men date less successful women not because they want ‘women to be dumb’ but rather because they want ‘someone who prioritizes their life in a way that’s compatible with how you prioritize yours.’”

Basically, they want someone who isn’t ever going to let her career come before making dinner and pleasing them first.

They want a woman who is dumb enough to make them a priority and, unfortunately, for all those sane, rational and intelligent women out there, there’s a hefty number of these women out there.

There are plenty of women who will give up their lives for men, who will refuse to challenge them, fight them and refuse to see them as their equals, but their saviors.

Then again, deciding what kind of woman you are is like choosing between a rock and a hard place. If you’re stupid, you’re not taken seriously, but if you’re smart, you’re taken too seriously. Women everywhere are flailing under this double-edged sword. A beautiful, attractive female isn’t desirable for her mind, and those with strong characters are seen as threatening, masculine and undesirable.


A study conducted with 121 British participants reported findings that females with high intelligence in male/female relationships were seen as problematic.

Their intelligence were predicted to cause problems in the relationships. Whereas, high intelligence in the male partner was not seen as problematic, but desirable.

These cultural stereotypes and gender biases are inhibiting women from being seen as equals. Rational and educated women are being ignored and chastised for their intelligence.

Those women who teach you, show you and help you grow are being picked over, combed through and dumped for girls with shirts that show a little too much skin and platform heels.

Of course there are plenty of women out there with boyfriends who are intelligent. This is not to come at women with boyfriends, but to assuage that nagging, pestering pain all intelligent women feel as men continually take them out to dinner, have a great time then decide they’re not worth the work.
First really is the worst


There’s an epidemic of settling in this generation. Women everywhere are dipping far below their standards just to find men who appreciate them. They are giving up things they thought they wanted for nothing more than a simple “he’s good to me.”

Where’s the man who was supposed to challenge you and understand you? Where’s the man who was supposed to shock you and support you?


In an article by “The Daily Mail,” Minister of Universities David Willetts asserts, “Successful women will have to ‘marry down’ by choosing partners less qualified than them – and may increasingly select men based on how supportive they might be to their careers, rather than whether they can support them financially.”

Judging from the notion that male egos aren’t deflating at the same rate at which women are increasing their education, there’s an uneven scale here. Women are getting smarter, but men aren’t getting more supportive.

Most people like to be the better one in the relationship. Men have been taught or conditioned to believe they are superior, when a woman shows a competitive edge, he becomes threatened.


The number of college-educated women now outweighs the number of college-educated men, which in turn has diminished options in the dating pool. Men aren’t ready to accept being second in the bread-winning competition and this is causing women to either settle or stay single.
You forget to eat the whole cake

Intelligence breeds ambition, which breeds neglect. Neglect for love, boyfriends and years spent pursuing that MRS Degree. Neglect in college, focusing on studies rather than finding a man and neglect at work, refusing to spend nights out at bars and clubs.

Unfortunately, for all those women who thought a man would come later, other women capitalized on their youth, snatching up all the boyfriends and husbands while they focused on building their careers.

Women went into college with an intent to come out wives, slowly but steadily snatching up the number of available men for all those women who chose to attack their professional dreams.

This phenomenon only increases as women leave college. Becoming frustrated with their lack of love and work harder in achieving professional success to fill the void. Dr. Alex Banner of “The Huffington Post” explains that women are compensating for their unsuccessful dating careers with successful professional careers, and it’s only widening the gap.
Big minds are like big balls

You may be sensitive, sweet and insecure, but your intelligence makes you threatening. You may not have muscles and a big d*ck, but men will look at you as competition.

You are intimidating and emasculating. While most intelligent women aren’t pompous or arrogant about it, many times men assume they are. They assume the woman is going to correct them, upstage them or, God-forbid, make them feel worthless.

In an article published by “The Daily Beast,” Dr. Eileen Pollack explains, “There are all these contradictions that are propagated in our culture that make it seem like you can’t be smart and s*xy. I don’t think most of us challenge the paradigms, we just absorb them.”

If a woman seems too smart or accomplished, she’s typecast as “non-dating material.” If she’s witty and competitive, she’s viewed as challenging and overbearing.

Society has come to teach women that being funny and smart won’t get you dates, but empty heads and shallow hearts.

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See Things Ladies Should Do To Keep Your Man From Other Girls

It will be a very good thing if most ladies can read this piece and know that it will be extremely helpful for them as it will help them keep their man and enjoy marriage the way it should be:

A good cook:
I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man’s favorite food and I mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him.


S*xual delight:
I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man. A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a s*xually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the husband.

Be his personal private Love-peddler:
Don’t be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday.

The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for s*x “ooohh how boring” please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the poo of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don’t do him well, who will?
 
Financial independence:
Your husband should not be your sole financial plan. Please if you are a “full housewife” reading this i guess its time to free yourself from that. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don’t spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby’s gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

Humility:
Its so s*xy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family, a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

Fear of GOD:
A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don’t bother about any lady snatching your husband. Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

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8 Sure Ways On How To Make Your Girlfriend Beg You For Se.x

Have you been looking for ways to make your girlfriend/ wife beg desperately to have intercourse with you? Well, you just saw the right article.
1. Now, the first thing that attracts women is your phys i cal appearance, so here are some indicators to make sure you are looking your best at all times. If you follow these steps, I tell you, your girlfriend will think Christmas will come early due to her newly well groomed boyfriend!
( A) You may think this is funny but I’m serious. Make sure your teeth and tongue are clean by brushing them twice a day. Preferably, use dental floss and mouthwash also. The results will be lovely white teeth, and besides, who would want to kiss someone with yellow, unclean teeth and a dirty tongue?
(B) Well kept skin will look glowing and healthy if you take care of it. This can be achieved by washing your face daily with a face wash to keep spots at bay. Drink more water. Drink at least 8 cups of water a day. Mostly if you are prone to breakouts or have acne.
(C) This is my favorite part. Eat healthy and exercise when possible to achieve or maintain a healthy body. Make sure your toenails and fingernails are clean, not grubby. Also groom body hair such as trimming, shaving or waxing your chest and trimming your groin.
(D) Make sure you keep your hair healthy by getting regular trims to stop it from being damaged. Also, if you have eyebrows that meet or are inadvertently close, consider getting them subtly waxed so you look nice and groomed.
(E) Take care of your facial hair, by shaving or trimming- whichever you prefer.

2. Now the second thing a person notices about another is personality. You have to treat your girlfriend by spoiling her (I mean not doing it too much, too much of everything is bad). Surprise her with an evening picnic in the back garden or a park or a nice dinner. Follow the steps in How to Be a Good Boyfriend.

3. Touch her affectionately and often. The sense of touch increases intimacy.
This is assuming you have been together long enough that she is comfortable being touched by you. Most ladies like it when their man touches them all the time, remember. Too much of everything is bad.

4. Be confident.
Dispel all notions of timidity, and make her feel she can depend on you. Ladies want men they can rely on. But don’t be too hard.

5. This is very simple but very important:
give her compliments and make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. By telling them that, you make them feel respected.

6. Make your move.
Put yourself in a romantic and intamite situation with you both almost naked (in undergarments). Tell her that you want to have s ex with her. She will most likely comply. If she doesn’t want to, BACK OFF. If you do not, she will then be uncomfortable with you, you will most likely never get to have s ex with her, and she might even break up with you.

7. Do it .
Try to find a comfortable place to do it on, like a bed or a couch or wherever she finds nice. Talk to her. Get in the position that’s best for both of you. If it seems like she wants control let her, or vice versa. Either way, as you are sliding your penis in and out try not to be too rough. A bad s exual experience can make her never want to have s ex with you again. Tell her you love her as you do it, and try to kiss.

8. Find different ways to do it with each other, it will keep the relationship new and fresh. Plus it will allow you and your partner to seek each others l i mits and knowing where to stop or where to go on. This will bind you and your partner even more.

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10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies

When a man shows interest in a lady and tells her that he would love to know her better,most times in his heart this is exactly what he is saying: "Hi lady, can i get to have a taste of your goody-bag and have the feel of your body to know if you are good enough in bed and decide if i should keep you for long or dump your ass in a jiffy because i don't really care whether we end up together or not".

I honestly don't believe in dating and even as courtship sounds more reasonable,it is still not really necessary and i will try to list logical reasons why ladies should avoid this lie from the pits of hell called dating or courtship and i hope you learn a great deal from this.

1. A man usually knows if there is a huge possibility of marrying you or just want to use you to pass time the very first day he sets his eyes on you and a man who is really interested in a purposeful affair with you will give you the sign almost immediately with the body language except you refuse to be vigilant.

2. Many Men use dating and courtship as a means of exploring you sexually and probably after he realizes that your bosoms are not as firm as he wants them to be or your sex performance is below what he wants or after he has really used you to his satisfaction then he tells you it can't work out because his mum does not want him to marry from your tribe or just brings up any lame excuse and decides to walk away to get another lady to "date"

3. An Angel can turn to a demon: Many people have argued that dating period is a period where you will know the type of person you have but this assertion is very funny because a good person can turn terrible and most times even if the person seems bad many ladies will still go on and marry him with the hope of changing him.

 4.Dating and courtship is a disguised miniature marriage because in many cases when a guy starts dating or courting you,you will be doing some stuffs that wives do and i keep wondering why they still see the union as dating or courting when he is practically having all the benefits he should get from a wife hence the need to continue dating and courting and dating and.. until you suddenly realized you have spent your honey years married unofficially to a man who will probably dump you to marry another lady still in the name of dating.

5.A thousand years of courtship is no guaranty that you will know the man and until you two stay under the same roof as man and wife,you will never come closer to knowing who he really is so why waste your years dating and courting.

6.Most of the marriages of our parents are great examples as most of our parents hardly knew each other before getting married yet many of them had a lasting and loving union but these days despite the celebrated dating and courting culture,many marriages hit the rock.

7.A good union is not hinged on the number of years both of you spend sleeping with each other in the name of dating or courtship but its in learning to love whoever you choose to marry and making up your mind to be with him against all odds.

8. I believe that for a man to ever propose an affair to you then he must have found you good enough to have to himself and for a decent lady to agree to an affair with a man then she is definitely ready to be with the man except she is a slut so why waste time fooling around with each other all in the name of getting to sleep with each other in the name of dating and courtship?

9. A sexless date or courtship is the ideal form of courting where both of you try to know just a peripheral detail about yourselves hence once sex comes in then its no longer dating but unofficial marital union.

10.The responsible and matured guys at heart knows the type of woman they want and do not get involved in baseless dating but simply go for the lady of their choice and marry her.

If you are not ready to marry a lady,don't make advances towards her just to waste her years sampling her and if you are a lady,stop fooling yourself thinking you are dating him whereas you are just giving him your body to be used and probably dumped and understand that dating and courtship are just facade from the pits of hell aimed at destroying the lives of ladies by becoming single unmarried mothers,losing their lives through abortions and many have contracted deadly diseases all in the name of dating.

Lets face it,a year of sexless courtship should be enough and one year is not too much to deprive yourself of sex in order to know that guy better and if a man does not start the process of marrying you within a year then it means you are either dating a small boy for the sake of having sex or you are probably with a man who is not sure he wants you.

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5 Things Ladies Want In A Man’s Pen!s: Not All Women Want A Big One{Must Read}

Have you ever thought about what makes a pen!s attractive? Not sure? Well, don’t rely on your opinion to answer that question…. From researches we carried out we were able to figure out those things [5] ladies really want in a Man’s pen!s. Enjoy as you read below;

1. It Doesn’t Have To Be That Big

A woman’s G-sp0t is actually only about 2 inches into her va-gi-na – therefore, the myth that men have to have a huge pen!s to give a woman an 0rgazm is just that – a myth. A pen!s can be sati-sfy-ing to a woman and cause g-sp0t 0rgazms if it’s over 3″ long, however, the average pen!s size is about 5 inches. So in reality, most men are able to satisfy a woman with the equipment they’ve got.

2. Slight Upward Curve

The g-sp0t is located on the top wall of the vag!na, on the stomach side – not the butt side. So if your pen!s has a slight upward curve, it’s simply going to hit the g-sp0t even better. If your pen!s goes straight out, that’s not bad either. If your pen!s curves downward, you may want to experiment with different siex positions to find a way to st-im-ulate her g-sp0t with your pen!s.

D0ggy style is actually an excellent siex position to try if you want to stimu-late her g-sp0t but your pen!s curves downwards. Some men have a pen!s that curves slightly to the left or right – this usually does not affect a woman sie-xually, unless you are long enough to stim-ulate her A-F-E Zone, which is much farther back than the g-sp0t.

3. A Wide Head

Again, the head is where it’s at for a woman. This is what will st-imul-ate her g-sp0t during s-ex and give her incredible 0rgazms. Although her g-sp0t isn’t very big, the wider the head of your pen!s is, the more it will rub up against it and st-imu-late it.

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