I have heard of cases where a “suppose vir.gin” didn’t bleed on her Wedding night. The disappointment the man would feel will be nothing compared to The pain and frustration she would feel afterwards. Here emphasis is not on self acclaimed vir.gin that use fingers or cucumber etc. to mas.turbate..
Most men see blood as the only way to ascertain if a girl is vir.gin or not. But that is not necessarily so.
Before you condemn that vir.gin, here are the reasons why she didn’t bled:
1. Some girls are born without a hymen;
2. The hymen may tear naturally when a girl
plays sports or engages in any physical activity;
3. The hymen is not always smooth but tends to
be perforated and that the perforations may get
bigger and cause the hymen to break once a girl
menstruates;
4. The hymen can be broken by the use of
tampons;
5. The hymen may be very small or very elastic
so that no breakage occurs at all (some women
even become pregnant while their hymens are
still intact);
6. A hymen may not bleed when broken.
Given these facts, it is extremely sad that
women all over the world are still expected to
bleed on their wedding nights as proof that they
are virgins and that they often pay severe
consequences if they happen not to bleed,
possibly being shamed and humiliated, instantly
divorced or even killed. To avoid such disasters,
women have resorted to various tricks to ensure
that they bleed, including the use of animal blood
in their private parts or even cutting themselves,
while wealthier women often get gynecological
exams before marriage and do hymen-repair
surgery in the event that no hymen is found.
There is so much confidence in the idea that an
intact hymen proves virginity that the trend in
many countries now is to have one’s daughter
“officially certified” as a virgin by a clinic. This is
so embarassing for the girls that a number of
them (most notably in Turkey) have committed
suicide rather than be touched by strangers in
this bizarre, invasive manner.
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