Hi I need an advice from fellow readers......
I'm a 28 years old lady, working and independent, i have had series of heart break from past relationships that for a year and half i took time out from being in a relationship in other to get myself and focus on my work and and furthering my education.
Not until last year, a friend of mine from way back in the university came to see me and told me there is this guy she wants me to meet.
At first, i declined and told her i wasnt interested at the moment until am done with mymasters before i think of a relationship that i dont want anything distracting me at the moment. She kept pressurizing me and insisted i meet this dude before i conclude.
I accepted and eventually met him(April 2014). We got talking and i ended up liking him, he treats/respects me like no other, and he proposed to me 2 months ago, BUT.............
Here is the issue, I DONT enjoy sexual intercourse with him,(dont get me wrong i really do love him), but hes really Endowed down there (like really big) and each time we have sex it hurts (cos hes huge). some times i cut it short when i cant bear the pain anymore and i really feel sorry for him those times, while sometimes in other to satisfy him i really have to bear the pain.
A couple of times av bled and visited the clinic and was told to abstain for a while(its been almost 3months now) we havent had sex.(though he is aware of it).
My question is.... When we end up getting married for how long would i have to endure the pain during sex with him?? (that sh** hurts).
what can i do to ease the pain??(we have tried using lots of lubricant....Lol....but it still hurts)
You know they say sexual intercourse is one of the key to a happy home(if you dont give it to him, he would go search for it outside), which is what every woman prays against.
Dear readers ur thoughts please.......
Thanks.
N:B Please hide my ID, he reads your blog.
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