Some men think they must eat up and swallow the woman’s entire mouth during a kiss. So they clamp their manly, dry lips over the poor woman’s lips and proceed to wash it with saliva.
For many people se.x and intimacy is not complete without a kissing session.
With the exception of a few who for some reasons best known to them hate lip-to-lip action, many women consider kissing skills a very important factor in rating a man.
A man’s ability to turn a kissing moment during foreplay to something pleasurable will determine if he gets to transit to the bed or it ends at the kiss.
It must however be noted that there are some things men do when they kiss that can put women off.
Here are 7 of them:
1. You have a foamy mouth – one of the worst things you can do to a woman when kissing is spilling saliva all over her face! A kiss doesn’t call for too much saliva exchange. You are not drinking palm wine from a gourd so keep the saliva inside.
2. You let your tongue roam free – women don’t like men who kiss like snakes. If your tongue darts around uncontrollably inside her mouth, chances are she’ll not allow
a second chance. So instead of excessive tongue action, focus on her lips. A similar case is men who allow their tongues to dart in and out like a lizard, not nice! Slowly caress her lower and upper lip with your own lips. Use your tongue with caution and be watchful to see if she likes it or not!
3. Your mouth smells like a latrine – if your mouth is a foul-smelling cave, you’ll chase her off. Odour is a major turn-off for women, especially oral odour. Men who smoke, eat garlic and other food with string smell must make sure they always brush, regularly too. Also, chew mints once in a while and keep your mouth dehydrated by drinking plenty of water!
4. You bite or apply too much pressure – a kiss is neither war nor a fight. You don’t increase the pleasure by kissing harder. In fact, the softest kisses will produce stronger emotions. You don’t have to crush her lips!5. You have prickly beards – most women agree that facial hair makes men look hot but most women also find prickly stubbles irritating for their sensitive skin. If your girlfriend is one that loves beards, then do her the favour of leaving your hair moisturized and soft, not dry and prickly. So, if you can’t shave, avoid pressing your face into hers – lips contact only (or mostly)!
6. You are clumsy – a kiss is not an examination, so you don’t have to apprehensive and make things seem awkward. Approach the kiss calmly, especially if it is the first time you’re kissing the person.
7. You swallow her mouth – some men think they must eat up and swallow the woman’s entire mouth during a kiss. So they clamp their manly, dry lips over the poor woman’s lips and proceed to wash it with saliva. A kiss is largely touching lips, sometimes gentle, sometimes firm, but not a case of swallowing her face.
The ultimate rule is to reduce the tongue action and give out as little saliva as possible.
Let kissing be part of your foreplay from now on
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